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Posted by Dean from PA

In Reply to: What to do about harassment posted by Nick in PA.

THe only thing you can do right now is keep a journal of every incident and keep your cool no matter what!!! She will try to get you angry and if you are she has all the control. Adults who can not manage their anger do not make good parents in the courts eye. It is all about the best interest of the child. Be SO nice it even makes her sick. She will be the one looking bad when it comes time for enforcing your visitation rights. THe judge doesn´t care about he said-she said, but your lawyer can submit the journal when the time is right and she is getting desparate as she loses control of you and her own emotions. Establishing a clear pattern of verbal abuse and parental alienation will take time, but a judge will need this evidence to find her in contempt of the custody/visitation order.(read the last few pages of your order carefully it explains how you both are to treat each other for the sake of the child) A journal that has been kept neatly and detailed will impress a judge as well as your ability to keep your cool under such aggravating circumstances. Also the child will begin to see you are the stable one in control of your emotions and she is not. This is a long hard road to travel I had been on it many years before seeing the reward but it is worth it. Never let anyone come between your relationship with your child!!!! Children value it more than you know. Do not give up on them because your ex or the court makes things seem impossilbe.

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