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Posted by leftover

In Reply to: Is this a sick debate forum? posted by Barbara, LI, NY

I am brand new to this site, this is my first post. I have been having a very difficult time finding others online who share my opinions on single parenting.

Barbara, I donīt think this is sick at all. I donīt think there are two extremes, only itīs two extremes that feed off each other, and canīt see the bad choices they have made until itīs too late, and a child is paying for the choices of their parents. one side The woman who is career welfare mother demanding child support from the man who wants to be a good father, but she wonīt allow it until she gets paid. Then she screams "DEADBEAT!" to anyone who will listen. Even though the father has a genuinely good heart in his chest. His hands are tied by the laws. She feeds off the other side. She will never see things rationally, because of her own selfishness.

I blame the government, in allowing these situations to happen, and then promoting them. They say itīs in the best interest of the child. Thatīs a crock. And a downward spiral. I think itīs hard for people to think rationally until itīs too late. Has anyone ever said, "Single parenting is the greatest!! You should try it!!" But our government makes it so easy for this to happen.

Like I said, Iīve been trying for the past 6 months to find a message board. Iīve been to single parent boards, left a couple in disgust, been locked out of two for being "unsupportive". Iīve tried anti-feminist websites, but couldnīt put up the abuse and name-calling long enough to make friends.

I donīt understand the thinking of these women. Theyīve been dating a man for two months, then WHOOPS, pregnant. Then they donīt understand why the dad wants nothing to do with them or the baby. Then they want to know where to apply for welfare.

I hope you donīt mind if I can go a little off the subject here, I looked for an introduction column, but Iīm not used to this board format.

I hope that I have finally found a site where I can state my opinions, and not be accused of having too many issues in my own life to offer advice to others (as well as unsupportive and thoughtless) Iīm so sick of hearing "It takes two to make a baby".

This isnīt sick. Whatīs sick is the way that people have an entitlement mentality. Goes well with a side of victimization.

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