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Francis King remembers the good old days and asks whether we should look to the political right for answers.

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  • every man should have a copy of this book - zwingli 2006-05-04 10:37
    Ground breaking new menīs book has just been released! Every man should have a copy of this book!
    Responsible Manhood
    Author: Winston Smith (a.k.a. Alan Barron.)
    Published by Tate Publishing, Mustang, USA.
    US Email: info@tatepublishin --more...
  • Re: What Marriage Really Is - Susan in Wichita, Kansas 2006-04-20 03:27
    After dating for three years, I was married the first time, when I was twenty and knew EVERYTHING. We divorced two years later with a son. My ex-husband and I share equal custody of our son. We each love our son. Neither pays support to the other for the care of our --more...
  • Re: When the law is one-sided in domestic disputes - phil,in gaithersburg,md 2006-04-17 02:01
    how many children & husband can a woman have before it is too many.this is unfair to the children.a child,s rights should be heard.give them a choice ,where they should live.women abuse men all the time & the children are the victims. --more...
  • Abortion is not about women's rights - John Kirsch 2006-03-01 04:04
    "Abortion isn't about women's rights. The rights they had were when they made the decision to have sex."
    - Senator Chris Buttars, R-Utah

    This is a logical response to those women who say that when a man decides to have sex, he has agreed to pay child support.
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  • Re: offensive - Kevin G 2006-01-26 12:08

    I have read your offensive letter, and I disagree with a couple of your points. First, you say men think they're in the minority. Well men are in the minority,(bottom of the ladder) what ever you want to say when it comes to having equal rights to their children.TH --more...
  • Re: offensive - John K 2006-01-24 05:09
    Really, no such thing as a radical feminist?

    Your comment overstates the case. Radical feminists are on the endangered species list, but there are still a few of them left.

    This site seems pretty balanced to me. They print everybody's slant, even yours!

    As --more...

  • offensive - Lara 2006-01-24 01:28
    Your publication is offensive. The assumption that a feminist is a fat, ugly woman scorned is an archaic notion. To pass this on to our children-as with bigotry and racism-is a form of child abuse. Men may think that they are in the minority- It is the same stupid rheto --more...
  • prosecution of false allegations - Kevin G Ottawa, Canada 2006-01-06 14:40

    Steve J

    Iīve read your situation, and I have to say YOUR NOT ALONE. I have been going through a similar nightmare for the past 7 years. Before I get into my story, which I will. I recommend your wife make an affidavit, go to a lawyer and get her to --more...

  • Just Friends Forever !? - Va22 2006-01-04 16:14
    I know this is kinda random but listen. Im 22, a guy and recently got an apartment with a girl ive known and worked with for almost 2 years now. We get along great, agree on most things and we have similar goals for the future. I however feel most people are shallow and --more...
  • Re: the femisluts are having a - Forgetful Sue in Mizzou 2005-12-31 03:16
    You are kind of scary.....

    Having to be messed up???

    Many men/boys are raped and molested but are not physically damaged.

    The same thing happens with women. They donīt necessarily have to rip and tear.

    We as a society do need --more...

  • I used to be a single mom - Forgetful Sue in Mizzou 2005-12-31 03:15
    Take a look at the statistics!!

    And accept a few things.

    1. You cannot ever change bio-dad.

    2. You cannot force a parent to parent.

    3. You don’t have to be a negative statistic.

    4. You made the choice to sleep with him.

    5. --more...

  • How sex assult statistics might not be correct. - Forgetful Sue in Mizzou 2005-12-31 03:10
    I read somewhere about how sex assult statistics are not very accurate because of how they are obtained and how they can include unwanted touch (like a teen age male hand moving up or down clothing. Not appropriate but not assult.) Can someone? Anyone? tell me were --more...
  • When the law is one-sided in domestic disputes - Charity, VA 2005-12-13 01:08
    My dad just went through this horrible ordeal because my stepmom made so many lies and claims against him under oath. Of corse the woman judge believed everything she said. So biased. Is there anyway to prove perjury, or get an appeal because of a biased judge? She hate --more...
  • Male victims just need therapy? - John K 2005-12-10 08:14
    Sending the victim to a therapist is no substitute for preventing abuse in the first place.

    Lying so you can get pregnant is dishonest, and among adults that sort of behavior is called fraud. Lying for personal gain is fraud. People who commit fraud should be punish --more...

  • Re: Men are abusers - Schelle 2005-12-10 06:58
    Its only a matter of time before your friend commits suicide and no one seems to think perhaps your friend needs help? Has your friend explored the various avenues available through both government agencies in which HE can improve his life via grants, scholarships etc --more...
  • Re: Choice fo Men - Scott MN 2005-09-04 07:44
    I wish you would let us in on your stratagy. I had alot to do with my divorce but so did she and now just because she can she is taking my daughter and lets me see her 3 days a month I have no crim. rec. I am a decorated disabled veteran, and make good $ she uses my lit --more...
  • Re: Men are wonderful - Harry in niagara Falls, New York 2005-05-18 06:45 (0)
    I am a father who is trying to see my two children in Canada when the mother will not let me see them because I am married to a white women. Due to circumstances I cannot go accross the border to see my children. I have been trying to see my children for 6 years. The --more...
  • Re: Men are wonderful - Indiana 2005-04-17 01:13 (0)
    I beleive truly that a jerk is a jerk, regardless of what sex you may be. There are way to many women who are abusing their children emotionally by not letting that child have contact with their father. Mother or father will always be a part of that child regardless of --more...
  • Re: What Marriage Really Is - Bearly50 tennessee 2005-04-05 17:33 (0)
    Its great to see that some women can see whats going on.Well one woman anyway.I am such a person as described and Ive tried to have other relationships only to be thwarted as a result of an ex always using the court system to keep me Humbled and Broke.She is remarried a --more...
  • Re: Men are abusers - Owen/Australia 2005-03-24 17:46 (0)
    I have to say that the guy doesnt have to be good looking for this to happen. My roomate was engaged in a relationship with a girl who claimed to be on the pill. She lied. Now, three years later he cant keep up with the child support payments. Its only a matter o --more...
  • Re: I was arrested for talking on the phone to my wife... - Owen/Australia 2005-03-24 17:31 (0)
    I feel bad for you, but you should have been more careful. The law is not known for its common sense. Your wife is being harmed by this culture as well... these issues are not just about men but people. I activley support many kinds of feminism. I dont see support --more...
  • Re: Men are abusers - Owen/Australia 2005-03-24 17:22 (0)
    With "arguments" of that quality being put to me every day, its not hard to see why I was attracted to this site. I cant visit my sister overnight in her college accommodation because I am male. I am assumed to be a threat of rape. I am punished for a crime I did n --more...
  • Re: Men are wonderful - Owen/Australia 2005-03-24 17:07 (0)
    Perhaps it would be better to say that SOME PEOPLE are wonderful. A jerk is a jerk, regardless of sex.
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  • Re: Insulted - Owen/Australia 2005-03-24 17:07 (0)
    The fact of the matter is that neither viewpoint as a whole is truly "proved" by recounting indevidual tales of woe. I am sorry if you were personally offended by the views expressed on this site - but have you really considered their validity? Single mothers cop a lo --more...
  • Re: Choice fo Men - Paul, Sr. 2004-12-10 14:48 (0)
    Great article! I agree and we need more MEN to open up their eyes and realize what is going on. We are at the point where "civil disobedience" is the only action that will bring everyone back to reality. Just a couple thoughts: 1. I would like to see statistics on t --more...
  • Re: Insulted - Paul,Sr. 2004-12-10 14:03 (0)
    Your comments just validate the opinions posted on this web site. You demand? Yea, we will just jump right up and type one out. I dont think so! Why are you a single mother? Why did you have children when you were not in a secure relationship? If you were as good --more...
  • Re: Is this a sick debate forum? - leftover 2004-11-28 08:29 (0)
    I am brand new to this site, this is my first post. I have been having a very difficult time finding others online who share my opinions on single parenting.

    Barbara, I dont think this is sick at all. I dont think there are two extremes, only its two extre --more...

  • Re: What Marriage Really Is - Kathie Scottsdale Arizona 2004-08-11 07:05 (0)
    I am a woman and I have to totally agree. I know those women... I am single, no kids and have a career.....all I find are broken men, broken by lazy, ex wives that even remarry and have more kids and have several husbands "incomes" coming into their home. Shes drivin --more...
  • Re: Insulted - Mike AZ 2004-07-19 21:53 (0)
    If I just listened your side of the story I would side with you. But what I would like to know is what did you do to him that made life so bad that he would give up on his son, just so he would not have to deal with you? --more...
  • Insulted - Andrea 2004-07-09 09:01 (0)
    I am a single mother and I am demanding an apology. I am researching a paper for school and I was looking on the Internet for information on single mothers and raising a son alone. I was amazed to find that you are blaming all of the problems of the world on single mo --more...
  • Spirituality and Fatherhood - Spiritual Dad 2004-06-20 20:42 (0)
    Spirituality and Fatherhood This anonymous survey looks at spirituality as a dimension of fatherhood. It should only take a few minutes. Thanks in advance for taking the time. http: --more...
  • Re: Choice fo Men - funboy503 2004-06-04 23:52 (0)
    It goes both ways. I have full custody of my children and their mother never pays child support. More and more women are simply fighting for custody, not for the wellfare of the children that they gave birth to but to simply get a free ride from the government. It becom --more...
  • Re: Choice fo Men - mensrights 2004-05-14 06:11 (0)
    Yes women have all the choices and usually use this "power" to destroy the mens and childs lives. --more...
  • Re: Choice fo Men - Patty 2004-05-12 17:00 (0)
    How does Mass owe you money? If you dont pay your child support then you owe it unless you can prove otherwise. Dont get me wrong I think that the giudelines are unfair to the non costodial parent but you sound like you should have no responsibilities. You did create --more...
  • I was arrested for talking on the phone to my wife... - Steve J., Westchester, NY 2004-03-19 18:42 (0)
    I was on your website, which I found to be very helpful. I am wondering what you think about the following: I was arrested after an incident with my wife and an Temporary Order of Protection was issued. Subsequently, my wife initiated e-mail contact and later telephone --more...
  • Re: THE TEN MOST COMMON FEMINIST MYTHS - Laurie 2004-03-07 04:20 (0)
    So you are no longer responsible for your own children becasue your wife played at the office? Your logic is quite ridiculous. You are a deadbeat. Plain and simple flat out.
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  • Ill never understand... - izza 2004-03-04 18:05 (0)
    why some people go against there own kind. If your not down with the feminist, thats cool, but you really shouldnt talk smack on them. I appreciate the support but I think the best thing you could do is stay out of the fray. Its all about only worrying about yoursel --more...
  • Re: you can not post my stuff... - izza 2004-03-04 18:05 (0)
    you need to learn how to read pal, I said that death was better than KWs approval. I didnt say anything about needing your approval.

    the title of my post came from frustration of not having my post posted.

    my posts are intentionally s --more...

  • sure it does - izza 2004-03-04 18:04 (0)
    in war, you dont look at your enemies as people, you look at them as enemies. The last thing you want to do is identify with there suffering.

    I have been messed up beyond recognition, but fortunately I wasnt that handsome to begin with --more...

  • Re: THE TEN MOST COMMON FEMINIST MYTHS - yes im a girl 2004-02-12 05:29 (0)
    i say let men have costody for awhile and let men collect child support see how long it takes for almost all of the women to be considered dead beats i dont think it will take long at all im sick of hearing about dead beat dads i am a woman with a child and it dosnt ta --more...
  • Re: Men are wonderful - Olusegun Victor 2004-01-25 00:45 (0)
    this is a title of a book. I cannot remember the author. Can you help to get a copy of this book?


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  • Re: Men are abusers - CURTIS 2003-12-16 04:16 (0)
    I HAVE BEEN TOLD AND PROSECUTED AS AN ABUSER. I AM NOT! WHat i am is a FATHER THAT BY THE SAME COURT SAID I WAS "abuser" gave me custody of my kids, because there mother is a proven heroin add. thats how i won. if you are out there trying to get your kids my only advi --more...
  • Re: THE TEN MOST COMMON FEMINIST MYTHS - balknobber 07:31 11/27/03 (0)
    Any feminist who calls "child support" as it is in the United States "fair" is part of the crowd which is despised, feared and responsible for much of the damage to what was at one time a great nation. Feminists by and large have turned the American dream of a successf --more...

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